Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas from our house to yours.  May you enjoy time spent with those dear to you.

So Not Ready

I have no idea what year this picture was taken.  I wish we were taking a picture with the four of us this year.  I miss my Mom so much.  I have to say that the last few weeks have been awful.  We should be finishing our Christmas shopping, she would help me come up with gifts for Darrell's co-workers, she would put my lights on my Christmas tree, I would help her do whatever she needed and we would just enjoy being together.  I am still so lost without her.  I am so far behind with getting my stuff ready for Christmas and I don't know if I will get caught up.  I am not looking forward to the holidays.

Nine months

Nine months ago today God called you home.  We miss you very much.  There are so many things I want to tell you or just talk to you about.  So many things I need your help with.  Hugs that only you could give.  I love you.

Thanksgiving 2010

We wish each and everyone of you a very Happy Thanksgiving.  Our year has not been what we had hoped for but we thank you for your continued thoughts, prayers and love.

Have a wonderful day with the ones you love!

Keep Your Fork

A woman was diagnosed with a terminal illness and given three months to live.  She asked her preacher to come by her house to discuss her funeral.
She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures to read, and what dress she wanted to be buried in.  She also requested to be buried with her favorite Bible.  As he prepared to leave, she suddenly remembered one more thing.  "I have one more request," she said excitedly.  "What's that?" the preacher replied.  "This is very important,: she continued.  "I want to be buried with a fork in my right hand."
The preacher looked at her, not knowing quite what to say.
"That surprises you?" she asked?
"To be honest, I am puzzled," he replied.
The woman explained, "In all my years of attending church fellowships and potluck dinners, I always remembered that when the dishes were being cleared, someone would inevitably lean over and say, 'Keep your fork.'  It was my favorite park, because I knew that meant something better was coming. . .like velvety chocolate cake or deep-dish apple pie.  Something wonderful!  So I want people to see me in that casket with a fork in my hand.  When they ask you, 'What's with the fork?' Then I want you to tell them, 'She believed the best was yet to come.'" 

I received a copy of House to House, Heart to Heart from the Jacksonville church of Christ in Alabama and this was in there.  It made me think of Mom for a couple of reasons, one being that Mom loved dessert. . . .a lot and second she believed that the best was yet to come and now she is being able to enjoy it.  BUT that doesn't make us miss her any less or hurt any less.  It does help to remind me that she is in a much better place without the worries, hurts, problems that we have.  I love you Mom and I know that you are enjoying the best.

Memories

When I think of my Mom, so many things come to mind.  One of them was her love of the beauty of God's creation.  We miss you Mom.  Your absence is felt everyday and in everything we do.

8 Months Ago

I know I say something like this every month but it is the truth.  It is still so hard.  Just today as I was pulling out of parking lot I thought of something and said to myself, "I need to call Mom and tell her about this.".  It slaps me in the face every time.  I miss her.

Happy Halloween

 Just wanted to share a couple more pictures of Mom and her fun loving self. 

Wednesday

This time last year we were waiting for Mom's white blood count to begin moving up after the transplant.  Gosh, that seems like such a long time ago.  It is amazing how different our lives are.  This was my week to stay with Mom and I desperately wish that I could do that again.  Just to spend time with her, to tell her I love her, to give her a hug.  I miss talking to her every day, shopping with her, knowing that she was around to answer questions, give a word of advice, just being my Mom.

Dear Mom:  I miss you so much..  Life is so different without you.  Please know that we all love you and wish you were here with us.

365 Days Later

This time one year ago today Dad, Rae and I were already headed to MD Anderson to spend the day with Mom and B because today was the day. Today she was getting her stemcell transplant which as going to make her better and we were going to do this as we did everything else important. . . .as a family. It began day 100 of her stay in Houston before she could come back home to us. We had so much hope that day. The transplant took an hour, that was it, 60 minutes. Mom just had to lay in bed and we just had to hang out with her and enjoy being a family. Today, 365 days later, our life is not what we expected. We miss her. The sun shine is a little less bright, the grass a little less green, our laughter a little quieter, our hearts a whole lot broken, our feelings a little more fragile, and our world a whole lot less happy. Because you never know what life is going to hand to you, make sure you tell those you love how much you love them and never take your time together for granted. We love you Mom and miss you. Everyone misses you. I hope we are making you proud. We are taking care of Daddy as best we can (no one will ever be able to take care of him like you did). We love you.

Weekend

I missed you so much this weekend, we all missed you. My heart has been hurting so much knowing that I was going to have to celebrate a milestone without you. Wish you could have celebrated with us.

7 Months

This past Friday was 7 months since we lost Mom. I still have a hard time believing that she is really gone. I still miss her so much every single day. This morning in church I kept smelling Mom's perfume. I don't know why. I am almost positive that no one wears the perfume that she wore so maybe it was just Mom telling me HI. I still have a moment every time we are at church that I really have to try my hardest not to cry because I miss her. This week is going to be hard for me and I am sure that I will spend a lot of time with tears for my Mom. I hope she knows how much I love her and how much we miss her.

Singing

Mom would have enjoyed church tonight. It was 5th Wednesday night singing and it was really good. We had two of our little boys lead and one of the little bit older boys lead some songs. It was all I could do to keep from crying.

Miss you Mom. I love you.

Fall

We are quickly approaching the time of year that Mom really enjoyed. The cool mornings, fall decorations and holidays. It makes me miss her. This time of year would have us a Hobby Lobby or Michael's looking at the holiday decorations and talking about starting our Christmas shopping. We miss you Mom.

Wordless Wednesday

Miss you so much Mom

Leukemia and Lymphoma Awareness Month

Every 4 minutes one person is diagnosed with a blood cancer.

Every ten minutes, someone dies from a blood cancer. This statistic represents nearly 148 people each day, or more than six people every hour. An estimated 52,310 will die from one this year. This month is Leukemia and Lymphoma Awareness month. My mom was one of the 52,310 this year.

What can we do to help find a cure?

Thursday Thoughts

Dear Mom,

We just want you to know how much we love and miss you. Not a day goes by that we don't think of you. The sky is not as blue, the grass is not as green and our smiles are not as bright without you.

Love,

Those who love you

Rae, Mom & Dad

Wordless Wednesday

Last week Rae said that when she sees the sun shining through the clouds like this, she likes to think that it is Mom waving at her. This was taken while Mom was still with us but it made me think of her and what Rae had said.

Not Much

Not much is going on around here besides the everyday things of life. Dad and my hubby have to work tomorrow. So far I am off (no sub jobs), Rae is off and the Metroplex part of the family is off. The weather is still pretty warm and we still haven't gotten any rain. We are supposed to have a very high chance for rain this week so I am keeping my fingers crossed.

Today we headed to the Hill to celebrate G-mom W's 86th birthday. We had a nice day but as with all of the family celebrations we have had, it just isn't the same. My grandmother's brother sang and dedicated a song to G-mom and Papaw and to Mom and Dad. I couldn't even pay attention to the words of the song.

Anyway, just wanted to share this picture. I took it at the Johnson's farm where we celebrated the short people's birthdays. We were out fishing at sunset.

6 Months

Today like everyday I think of you from the time I wake up til I go to bed.

I miss your smile, your laugh, your hugs, your encouraging words, your kisses.

Everywhere I look at your house, grandmommy's house or anywhere outside, I see you in the things you did there.

When I see the cows, I think of how you took care of them.

When I look at Dad, I see a sadness that will never go away because of the love you had for each other.

When I see Becca or Rae, I remember the fun times we had and then the hurt hits because we won't be creating anymore memories like that.

When I look at your grandkids I see two sweet children who miss their Memom. I see all of the things they will do that you won't be here for.

When I look at Darrell or Steven, I see two sons-in-law who although they had an idea of how wonderful you were didn't get to spend enough time with you to understand it all.

When I look at Grandmommy I see one who lost her daughter and misses her so much and I see another one who lost her very loving and caring daughter in law.

When I look at Diane, I see someone who misses her sister and the closeness they shared.

When I look at your brothers in law and sisters in law, nieces, nephews and cousins, I see a family who misses your jokes, smile and kindness.

When I look at our church family, I see people miss the loving way you were to them.

When I look at myself I see a person who has a huge hole in her heart, misses you very much, has questions for you, who wants to be the person you know I can be and to be proud of me.

Mom, we love you and miss you. We are doing the best that we can to be the people you want us to be.

Time Marches On

It is hard to believe how even when things change so drastically in your life that time continues to march on. Tomorrow begins another school year. Dad will be starting his 30+ year of teaching and after so many years there aren't always a lot of changes but this year there is. This will be the first time that Mom won't send him off on his first day of school with a hug, a kiss and an I love you more. It will be the first year that won't start with her taking him lunch. Even last year as sick as she was some days we would get lunch to him (I know he ended the year with out it but it is still different). Rae will be starting her 11th year of teaching and coaching. This will be her first year of Mom not seeing any of her volleyball games, or calling her to check how things are going and her first birthday (Friday) without Mom. Tomorrow is the first day of 7th grade for TatorTot and 4th grade for MadCow. This will be their first year without a phone call from Memom on the first day of school to see how it was. I remember TatorTot's first day of school. . .Mom and Dad drove all the way to Georgia so they could go to school with him on his first day. They went to MadCow's first day also. Memom always tried to keep up with how they were doing in school. They made her so proud. Tomorrow will be the first day that B will have to send her kids to school knowing that Memom would be so proud of them and wishing that she could be there to go with them. I know that she will be watching them all and wishing them a great first day of school. And Aunt D too.

My Dad

I have got the best Dad in the whole world. Our relationship has changed so much in the last few months. I miss my Mom so much and I am so glad that I have my Daddy to lean on. Thanks for all you do Dad. I love you very much.Yes, I know we are one short in this picture. I need to find some more with all of us when we were little.

Today

Today I had a mental list all these things that I was going to get done today and well, I didn't get any of it done. Well, I did get dinner cooked! Anyway as you know it has been so stinking hot around here and very dry so since everyone's grass is shriveling up and blowing away I knew that I had to get the sprinklers going. Went to Dad's first and got it started and then stopped at Grandmom's and I had to go inside to let her know that she needed to get some timers for the faucets. And I ended up spending most of the day with her. We talked about Mom and how much we miss her. I dreamed about Mom last night. This is the second time I have dreamed about her. In my dreams she is still fight cancer but she isn't sick like she was. She is able to do things unlike what really happened. If I am going to dream about her I wish I could dream about her when she was well and when we were able to do things together. I still have this huge hole in my heart. I miss her.

Where Does This Road Lead?

Well, as you can see I haven't had just a whole lot to write about lately. Life is just trudging on. For some life goes on as it always has but for us life goes on but in such a different way. Oh sure, we are dealing with the heat as always, complaining about the lack of rain, getting ready for school to start but as much as some things are the same so much isn't. Dad is doing ok, he has been able to spend some time with his grandkids. T stayed with him at the end of July for four days. They had a good time swimming, fishing and just hanging out. M stayed with him for about the same amount of time and spent time swimming and hanging out. I hope they realize how much it meant for Dad to get to have this special time with them. Dad has tried to keep himself busy this summer by getting things done around the farm. Of course things go so much slower when you are doing them by yourself and I think that this keeps him frustrated. Well, this along with the fact that it seems that if something can go wrong it will go wrong when trying to get something accomplished. For example, this week he has had to deal with four flat tires. Two on the tractor and two on the farm truck. Flat tires make it difficult to get things done of course and is time consuming and is very frustrating. He starts school tomorrow, not sure how excited he is about that!

Rae has already been back to school for almost two weeks. Now is one of two times during the year that we rarely get to see her. This weekend she will start traveling for tournaments and will do so for the next three weeks (I think that is what she said!). She got to take a peek at her rolls yesterday and her classes are ridiculously big again this year. Her smallest class is 24 and her largest is 30. Her room is small so I am not sure where she is going to put everyone. She is going to be so busy. She is sooo good at her job and I know that she will make it work.

Bec is getting her babies ready to head back to school. I know that she has been back to school clothes shopping with the boy this week and. . . . .well, we all know how much boys enjoy shopping, especially for clothes. The girl has been with the other g-parents this week traveling to the panhandle to see the musical TEXAS (and yes, I am a little jealous of her!!). So I am sure that she will be tortured, I mean she will love to go back to school shopping. They are growing up so fast. It is hard to believe that they are going to be in 4th and 7th grade. I am so happy that they still love to give kisses and hugs and hang out with their old aunt!

Me, well I am just trudging through day by day. Some days are easier than others and some days it is all I can do to get out of bed. I am looking forward to getting on some kind of schedule. Yesterday I worked at my Dad's school helping with registration. It was nice to see some of the kids I know from last year. I hope to get a lot of sub jobs this year.

Well, that is all for now. I hope you are all having a nice summer. I have to admit that I am ready for fall weather. It is so hot and we need rain so bad. I am thankful for the 2/10 of an inch we got yesterday.

Mom's Red Submarines

Wordless Wednesday

Yesterday was five months and it hasn't gotten any easier. Some days I still forget and think about things that I want to tell her or show her but then I remember and the pain comes rolling in like a tidal wave. Then I want to know why. . . . .why my Mom? Why did she have to go through so much pain and suffering? Why do we have to be the ones mourning the loss of our Mom? What is the purpose in all of this? Some days I really wish I had a view life button like the view blog button on this blog. What is God's plan? Why have we had so much loss and pain? Two babies in heaven that we hardly even knew about, one who we "knew" for almost 6 months and then Mom? I just don't understand and I miss my Mom so much. I need her to give me a hug and a kiss and tell me that it will be ok. But she can't and I hate it. And I just really miss her.

Family Reunion Picture

Back Row (left to right): Ray, Bobby, JB, Don J., Don N., Judy, Paul

Front Row (left to right): David, Diane, Dilys, Virginia

Wordless Wednesday

Family Reunion

We had a mini reunion Sunday for Dad's side of the family. It was great to see everyone, especially the ones who were in town from Minnesota. It is always fun to get together but it also hurts. . . .a lot. Mom always added so much to a get together. She had something about her that made everyone want to be around her and everything seems a little less bright without her.

My nephew was in town last week and before he left, he and Dad went and picked up some flowers to take out to the cemetery. It was the first time that he has been out there since the funeral. Losing his Memom has been very hard on him and his sister. They loved their Memom and their Memom loved them more than anything. I hope they know just how much she loved them.

Anyway, here is a picture from our vacation. The scenery in Colorado is so beautiful and Mom loved being there.

Today

Today was a hard day. We were all finally together again and we needed to go through my Mom's jewelry and divide it up. It was sad and we all cried. There are other things that we still need to do but we can only do a little bit at a time. My nephew was with us while we were doing this and he had a hard time too. Really makes me miss my Mom.

Thankful Thursday

I am thankful for the peace, tranquility and beauty of the mountains and getting to enjoy it with loved ones.

One Year

One year ago today is one of those days that will be etched in my brain forever. You see, one year ago today while Becca, Rae and I were hanging out with Mom in the hospital, Dr. Jenkins came in and told Mom that she had leukemia and that we had an appointment at MD Anderson on Friday. We sat there is shock, waiting for Dad to get back so we could tell him. Little did we know how much our life would change over the next year, how much pain Mom would endure and how heartbroken we would end up. I miss my Mom every minute of everyday. There are so many things I want to tell her or show her or ask her. I love my Dad so very much and hate seeing him hurt. I hate that Taylor and Madison miss their Memom so much and I hate that Becca, Rae and I have lost the most beautiful person in our lives.

Sad News

This afternoon we received sad news. While Mom was in the hospital, we met and became friends with a woman named Linda whose daughter had a stemcell transplant in November. Kelly (the daughter) had been diagnosed with lymphoma in 2007. Kelly had many of the same problems as Mom did but she has been able to spend the last couple of months at her home with her husband and three young children. After a long battle, Kelly passed away this afternoon. Please keep Steve, Claire, Meghan and Michael (husband and kids) and Linda and the rest of the family in your prayers as they begin another chapter in their journey. We know the pain this family is feeling tonight.

Independence Day

It never occurred to me how difficult yesterday might be but it was. Last night while watching the fireworks, all I could think about was all the July 4ths from when we were kids. When we all, the Watsons, Parsons, Peavys, Boyds, Polks and who ever else showed up would be at the lake. We would spend the day swimming, skiing, eating, playing volleyball and horse shoes, riding in the boat and wake boarding (or as in our case cabinetdoor boarding) and then when it finally got dark, shooting fireworks over the lake. Mom always had a good time when we did this because she loved being with her family and friends. In my memory I could hear her laughing and I could see her with the sparklers that she always played with. Dad didn't go to the fireworks because Mom was the one who enjoyed going and he would go where ever she wanted and he didn't think he would enjoy it without her. He did spend the evening with Rae, Lou Ellen and G-mom Parsons and they seemed to have a nice time.

Dad, Rae, Darrell and I went to Colorado for vacation in June. It was not the vacation we had planned. Dad had said when we first found out that Mom was sick that we were all going to Colorado for a family vacation this year. At that time it never entered out mind that she wouldn't be here to go with us. Although the trip was wonderful, there was not a minute that went by that I didn't not think about Mom and desperately wish that she was with us. I miss her more than ever.

I took over 200 pictures and I may put some up from time to time.

Four

Four months and one day. Seems like it has been an eternity and seems like yesterday. I wish I could talk to her, have her give me a hug and hear her laugh.

Missed Me Yet?

Been busy traveling. Will be sure to tell you all about it but it will have to be later.

Happy Father's Day

Happy Father's Day to the worlds best Dad. We love you and want you to know that we will always be here for you.

"The greatest gift I ever had Came from God, and I call him Dad!"

~~Author Unknown.

An Amazing Love Story (the short version)

All Because Two People Fell In Love

Once upon a time a boy and a girl met and fell in love. Well, you may not think that this is an exciting happening or even an unusual happening but this is the story of two people who fell in love and it was a beautiful thing.
There was an Aggie who was finishing up school and was teaching drivers ed at the local high school. One day, this blond haired, blue-eyed girl walked into his classroom and he knew at that moment that she would be his wife. If you were to ask him today what she was wearing, he can still tell you. This love story started slowly as the young girl was not allowed to date the handsome Aggie because, well, he was in college and older than her; luckily for him, persistence paid off. They became engaged during her junior year of high school and were married June 13th, 1969.
They began their life as husband and wife, he was a teacher and she a homemaker. As they grew more in love, they added to their family, three girls.
This family of five loved each other very much. The girls knew that their parent’s relationship was special because you could just tell from being with them how much they loved and respected each other. They loved each other and they loved their girls. As the family grew older, the parents love for each other continued to grow and eventually they added two sons-in-law, a grandson and granddaughter.
On June 13, 2009, the handsome man and beautiful woman celebrated their 40th wedding anniversary. Their daughters hosted a party for them at the same location the beautiful woman’s parents had celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. This location was where the beautiful woman had grown up. The couple celebrated with family and friends (old and new) and a wonderful time was had by all.
This year, the celebration of their 41st anniversary will be very different. You see, the handsome man’s beautiful wife left her earthly home leaving the handsome man and his girls to keep her memory alive everyday and to honor her in everything thing they do.

Happy Anniversary to the handsome man and the beautiful woman. You gave us a wonderful example of how to be a married couple that loved each other very much. And this amazing love story was all because two people fell in love.

Birthday Wrap Up

Well, yesterday was Dad's birthday and we tried to make it as happy and fun as possible. First off Dad, Rae, Lou Ellen and I went to the movie to see Marmaduke. It was a really good movie and gave us the laughs we needed. Then we went to eat lunch at Longhorn Tavern and Shannon met us there so Dad got to have lunch with four girls! Last night Dad had an elders and deacons meeting and they were having dinner. We surprised him after dinner with his favorite cake. . . . pineapple upside down cake (he got orange slices and a model car). Then we left so they could have their meeting. Tonight after church he opened presents (at his favorite fast-food joint, Chicken Express!) and ate pecan pralines from a friend from church.
I know that it wasn't a birthday like Mom would do but we did the best we could. We love you Dad and hope that you enjoyed your birthday.

Today Is A Special Day

HAPPY 65TH BIRTHDAY DAD!

YOU ARE THE BEST AND WE LOVE YOU VERY MUCH.

We know that today will be hard for you but know that we are with you and that we love you.

I know that Mom is sending you tons of love, kisses and birthday wishes too.

One of Those Days

Well, it was actually one of those nights. Last night when I finally crawled into bed, I ended up crying myself to sleep. I was missing my Mom so much because I had so much on my mind (worry, worry, worry). I really needed Mom's hug and for her to tell me that it was going to be alright, that I will find a job because I can do whatever I put my mind to. Last week I was listening to the radio and I heard a song on that I hadn't heard in a long time. Who I Am by Jessica Andrews, has a line that says "My Momma's still my biggest fan". That was my Mom, she was my biggest fan and supporter. There were lots of people who helped me finish up my degree but Mom was always there telling me I could do it and she would help me as much as she could. Now, I don't have my biggest cheerleader and sometimes life is just so hard without that one person who was always rooting for you now matter what. I miss that and I just plain miss my Mom. I am still angry that she is gone. . . . .it isn't fair. Yes, I know life's not fair but why my Mom? Why my family? Why my does my Dad have to be broken hearted? WHY WHY WHY WHY? IT IS NOT FAIR.

Thankful Thursday

Today I am thankful for the wonderful rain we got last night and today to help make the grass grow for the guys from yesterday's wordless Wednesday.

Wordless Wednesday

Three Months

It is hard to believe that today it has been three months since Mom passed away. The pain of missing her has not gotten any less, it just hits you hard at different times. Like Sunday, sitting in church listening to our family (remember, family reunion) sing. I know that if she would have been there, she would have loved it and she would have spent time just listening. She loved to sing and had a beautiful voice. In the last three months we have passed several firsts; Tatortot's birthday, Madcow's birthday, my anniversary, her birthday, B's birthday, Mother's Day, LEH's birthday and end of the school year. June brings some more; Dad's birthday, Mom and Dad's 41st anniversary, vacation, Father's Day and Mr. Giggles birthday. Who ever realizes how many "firsts" you have to go through.
We still haven't gotten Dad completely unpacked in the house. Actually, we aren't even close. My sister B and her family were able to stay with Dad this past weekend (which I think Dad really enjoyed!!). While they were here they (I don't really know who did it, probably my BIL and Dad) cleaned out one of the front flower beds (again) and planted some really nice plants. It was nice just to have Dad and his kids together because we haven't been all together since Mom passed away. Well, I hope that each and everyone of you is having a good week. Remember to kiss the ones you love and tell them that you love them.

We love you Mom and we miss you so very much.

What A Weekend!

Have you ever noticed that we get so busy with "life" that the only times we get a large amount of family together is for funerals? Well, it seems that way so part of my Mom's family decided that we were going to get together for a more fun gathering. Mom's cousin from Canada decided that he and his family were going to come for a visit so. . . . . . . . .a family reunion was planned. We have been reunioning with family from Canada, Oklahoma and several other places (they were the ones who traveled the furthest) and it has been great. Today almost everyone was at church and let me tell you, the singing on our side of the building was awesome. Mom would have been so happy to be there with her loved ones. She would have loved the singing. She also would have put lots and lots of pictures on her memory card on her camera! The weekend has been so much fun and we have shared so much and I can't believe how much we have talked about Mom because she was so special to everyone. But with all the wonderfulness of the weekend also comes the sadness of Mom not being here to celebrate with us. Overall, it was a good time.

Nothing Much

Well, I don't really have much to say. I sometimes wonder if I should even keep this blog up. I don't know if anyone reads anymore. It just seems like too much to worry about because I never really have anything to say that I haven't already said before. Like how much I miss Mom and how it still doesn't seem real and how twice last week something happened and my first thought was that I needed to call Mom and tell her about it and how I still don't know what to do to help my Dad and lastly how are we going to get done all that she used to do? On that note, I hope everyone has a good week. It is hard to believe how quickly summer is getting here.

Wordless Wednesday

Evening Sunset

Sweet Words From a Sweet Boy

Mom and I used to teach the 3 - 5 year olds at church and a lot of the time, we only had one little boy in our class. His name is Andrew and he is such a sweet little boy. Wednesday night at church he came up and hugged me and told me that he was sorry that Ms. Barbara was not there. This morning I was singing with him and a couple of other boys in class before their teacher got there. Mom and I had taught him a song called the color song. Andrew loved this song and we sang it every Sunday. This morning after singing the song I said, "We haven't sang this song in a long time have we?" and Andrew replied, "No, we haven't since Ms. Barbara is in heaven". Mom made such an impact on even the smallest person. I really miss Mom and hope that the impression that I leave with people is like the one that she left.

Happy Mother's Day

We hope that all of you Moms out there had a very special day.

Mom, we missed you so very much. We think of you everyday. Dad is missing you but today was really hard on him. We love you.

Mom, we miss you so very much

On every Mother’s Day;

And not just then, but every minute,

Since you went away.

You were the center of our lives

Before your soul passed on;

It’s just so hard for us to believe

That you are really gone.

But we celebrate the life you lived

And all the things you gave us;

Our wonderful memories, Mom, of you

Are the things that will comfort and save us.

Please think of us, as we think of you

With hearts so full of love;

We’re looking up at you, sweet Mom,

As you look at us from above.

By Joanna Fuchs

Mother's Day

If roses grow in Heaven Lord please pick a bunch for me. Place them in my Mother's arms and tell her they're from me. Tell her I love her and miss her, and when she turns to smile, place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for a while. Because remembering her is easy, I do it everyday, but there is an ache within my heart that will never go away.

Someone sent this to my sister and I thought that it was so appropriate for our Mom. She loved flowers of all kinds but always enjoyed when Dad would bring her roses.

Happy Mother's Day to the world's best Mom who is missed so very much. We love you Mom and miss you so very much.

If. . . . .

you were wondering what the pictures from yesterday are, well it is our hay pasture. It makes me think of Mom because she is the one who always brought all of the hay in out of the field. The field is very pretty especially since it is cut so I thought I would share it.

Wordless Wednesday

2 Months

Today marks the second month since we lost Mom. Like RAW said, in some ways it seems like yesterday and in others it seems much longer. I know for me, the pain has not lessened. I still miss her so much.

Mom, we love you so much and miss you even more. Not a day goes but that we don't think of you.


Last night I got a new cell phone and Mom has always been the first person I would call with it, now it is my Dad. Isn't it strange the things that trigger our memories of our loved ones?

Birthday Flowers

These flowers were left by some friends from church a week or so ago.
Just a shot of some of the flowers.

The sunflowers are from my sister RAW.

When I saw this balloon, I knew I had to get it for Mom. She would have liked it.

These are from Mom's Mom (off of her rose bushes).

These are the beautiful yellow roses Dad left yesterday.

Happy Birthday

Happy 59th Birthday Mom!

Today we celebrate your birthday without you. We love you and wish you were here.

After posting these pictures, I found out that the little outfit my Mom is wearing was made by my G-mom P.

Tonight we went out to eat to celebrate Mom's birthday. We went to Outback and then had cupcakes (we shared on with our waiter). All afternoon I kept thinking out her birthday last year, she looked beautiful and smiled her awesome smile. I will have see if I can find some of the pictures from last year.

Dad and I went to the cemetery this morning and it was so hard. My heart just breaks because he is hurting so badly. I wish I knew how to help him. Please continue to pray for us and give him a hug when you see him.

Just a few of Mom's "babies".

Tuesday

I found this picture of Mom, her Mom and her sister on the hubbies computer. I have no idea when it was taken or what the occassion was. I may have been my Grandmother's 80th birthday party but I am not sure. Anyway, just thought I would share. Missing you everyday Mom. I love you.

Funny Face

This is one of my favorite pictures of my parents. My Dad's father took this picture of Mom and Dad. I love the look on her face. We have seen that look many times over the years. Sure wish I could see it again.

This evening after church Dad, D and I went to Whataburger as we often do for our evening "drink". Dad pulled out before us to go by the house to put the cats up. I looked in the car as he turned the corner and truly expected to see Mom sitting there beside her. It hit so hard that it is almost a physical pain. It was an absolutely horrible feeling. I can not believe it just hits you out of the blue and hits so hard.

Thursday was a hard day but the rest of the week was ok. I even went shopping at some of our favorite stores; this was the first time that I felt like being in town and shopping. It was far from being fun but it was bearable. At least I got some good deals.

Dad has been working super hard down at the house trying to get the yard cleaned up. It looks good. I know that it has to be so hard for him working without his right-hand woman. It is still strange to go down there and her not be there. I guess strange really isn't the right word. I have to say that some days I do what I can to not go down there because it is so stinking hard. I don't know how he does it.

Well, that is all for now. I hope that you are enjoying the pictures. They are ones we scanned for the powerpoint that was played at the viewing and the funeral.

Please continue to pray for us all. We are each struggling in our own ways and can't seem to figure out how to help each other. I hope you all have a great week.

Wordless Wednesday

Monday Memories

Mom and her girls.

We had an incredible Mom who loved us very much and did so much to help us. She taught us so very much and we were lucky to have such a wonderful example. We love you and miss you so very much.